Understanding the Scorpion
On the surface level, it may be tough to tell whether or not a Scorpio really likes you. Not surprisingly, guys/girls under this zodiac sign have a natural tendency for secrecy. On top of that, they also don’t want to put themselves in a very exposed position because they dread becoming submissive and in the end left behind. Nevertheless, Scorpio is far from being a hopeless cause. It is a sad truth, but Scorpio males/females are famous for turning out to be playboys. As they are certain they have got attractiveness and charisma, they enjoy stringing girls/guys along, and then disposing of them as soon as they lose interest. Having said that, for all their playboy facade, they are actually extremely vulnerable inside. Scorpios find it hard to acknowledge, even to themselves, that they like someone. They will take their time falling in love with women/men, but when they do, they’re in it totally, and they’ll stop at absolutely nothing to make you their own. Be careful not to mistake “hiding the feelings” and “not showing them at all”.
A Scorpio that likes you will pursue you wholly. Expect for the charming factor to come into effect. Not only that, Scorpio will no doubt be goofy and silly with you. He/she will probably tease you and provoke you in a loving way.
“I like you” “I love you” “You are the one”
The fact that they actually say the words is even a more substantial signal that they’re really in love with you. Scorpio will only say what he/she feels aloud when he/she feels that your emotions are as honest as theirs. Scorpios are typically guarded with their words and their feelings. Add that with the point that they are very competitive and you’ll already have an idea if the Scorpio in your life wants you. If Scorpio actively pursues you and tells you that they love you, then you can be certain that you definitely caught Scorpio’s attention.
Most Scorpios believe that they need not to tell you how they feel, but show you. I’m pretty sure a Scorpio coined the phrase, “Actions speak louder than words”. Don’t be upset that a Scorpio doesn’t say, “I like you/I love you”. To them, it shouldn’t matter because they’re ultimately giving you their all via their actions. Scorpio might even take offense if you ask them, “do you like me”, after they’ve strongly depicted their love for you through their actions.
Scorpio will try his or her very best to do for the one they like or love. Perhaps it’s as a result of their intense personality, but they never take anything lightly, and that includes romancing someone. They will invite you to the best date place that their money can afford. Scorpions are very protective and loyal. If Scorpio stands up for you against other men and women or makes moves to defend or protect you, then chances are they love you. On the potential downside, their protectiveness makes them extremely susceptible to envy. Just understand that their jealousy stems from their intense, and deep love for you. It’s actually admirable. Do not, under any circumstances, try to intentionally make them jealous to find out if they really care about you. Their passionate emotions will know no bounds if they find out about it.
Scorpios do test. They will disappear to see if you are able to give them room. They will start a conflict to see if you will be patient or hurt their feelings. They will send friends your way to hit on you to see if you are loyal. They will trust you with juicy gossip and send someone your way to attempt to extract it out of you to test your trustworthiness. Whatever they value, count on a series of tests, each one more detailed and intense than the one before it. Once you’ve passed on the tests, you will unlock the sacred heart of a Scorpion. (It’s worth it)
I feel it. I know it. He/she loves me.
Ultimately, you will know when a Scorpio loves you. They make you feel like you are on cloud nine. Scorpio makes you feel protected, needed, adored, loved, special. Never take a Scorpio for granted because you will miss Scorpio when they’re gone, and I guarantee you, they won’t come back. Understand that love with a Scorpio is a profound experience, something life changing and deep. Scorpio will encourage you to be a better person, and in turn Scorpio will need your support. A Scorpio in love will never stray. Scorpio, being a water sign, is as sensitive as a Cancer or a Pisces, and so you need to love your Scorpio. Match your Scorpio’s passion. Match your Scorpio’s devotion. Make your Scorpio feel safe.